Pinoy ako

This is a forwarded message from one of my friend somewhere in England. This is dedicated to all Filipinas woaman , but I think not only Filipinas but to all woman. I don't know why he wrote this kind of book and he point out to the Filipina. Do we have a bad image already being a Filipina or we just wanted to have a good future since we can't get from our country?

Why would an Englishman, who obviously, sees appeal in a Filipinas want to write a guide to help her find Mr Right?

Truth is I have been talking to Filipinas for about 2 years. Sadly they have a lot of preconceived ideas of what a man wants and this is making many very vulnerable to the foreign advances.

Poverty is a poor bed fellow and many Filipinas are living under the assumption that a foreign man who can put a roof over her head and food in her belly MUST be better than her existence in Manila.Well, NO

Most men to be found looking for a Filipinas are seeking things he would find it very hard to obtain in his own world. In UK or USA a 60 year old man making a 25 yr old girl a wife is a very rare thing indeed. He goes to Philippines to make his money and life style significant in his search for an ORNAMENT wife !

An ORNAMENT because she can be a young beauty keeping him company in old age. He knows that a Pinays culture makes her believe that it is her role to look after her man by cooking cleaning and being sexually available according to his needs. A Filipinas is raised to ask for very little for herself both in terms of material things and in terms of life quality.

Gary Williams: There will of course be many cases where a foreign man and a Filipinas meet marry and live happily after and it is not my intention to stand in the way of true happiness.

I am hoping to just guide the Filipinas to take reasonable care in choosing the man and the life style she is moving into. Once committed to a life in a foreign land it is almost impossible for her to escape and return home. It is no use her telling her family and friends she is unhappy because they do not have the means to finance her return to her home and family.

We are all aware that a prostitute sells sex to acquire money for basic needs. That is an unpleasant occupation in many ways but she does not have the need to express love or show feelings to the client.

Gary Williams: Poverty and vulnerability are causing Filipinas to sell their SOUL in order to have a better life for themselves and to be able to send money back to make the life of their family better. A Filipinas hopes and prays that she will find genuine love with a man and her life will be enhanced by her marriage to him.

This guide aims to get the ladies to look in the mirror and be proud, to tell herself that the man who gets her as his wife is the luckiest man in the world AND she would like to escape poverty BUT that man is seeking to escape Loneliness. IF he was Mr Perfect he would not be in a dating site.

Gary Williams: IF the man she finds is genuine he will be delighted to find that she is asking the questions about his past and his intentions. There is no disgrace in questioning the validity of his claims from his job title to why he finds himself available at this time of life.

I hope the guide will help to form a link between the Filipina culture and the life she can expect in foreign lands. I hope it will help her to realise that one more question may just avoid the wrong man entering the lives of her, her children and her family.


I try to make my friends confident so they can CHOOSE the man they want rather than find themselves chosen by the man who tells the best lies !!
It is saying that if you assume the man is perfect and you ask for nothing you will only have yourself to blame when you find you have arrived in HELL

IF he wants a stupid slave as a wife tell him to look elsewhere to find her DO NOT become her to massage his ego !